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Some Questions with respect to the sexuality
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The woman and the OrgasmoThe errors of the women in the bed
In this opportunity they are those that complain the feminine behavior under sheets and although many reclamations seem capricious, the idea is to have them in account to see if these are certain or are pure exaggerations.
According to a survey realised in Internet by a Spanish feminine magazine, the men are very unsatisfied with the attitude of their pairs in the bed. All the survey have agreed in the characteristic keys that the women would not have to do at the time of the love.
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We detail some of them so that each judges if the masculine vision is exaggerated or if on the contrary they reflect the reality:
To be made request. All explain that already they are tired to request sex outside as if a favor that must do their companions to him.
To hope to that the man does everything adopting a passive sexual conduct.
Without a doubt, one of the behaviors that affect plus them is the lack of initiative.
To make damage with the teeth during a felación.
To plan to what hour and what day the intimate encounter is due to produce. To as much it oppresses them organization.
To do it with the dull light.
To refuse to practice anal sex and to make them see that they are perverting.
The classic lies as “today it hurts the head to me”.
To never place the preservative to him as if only its use was responsibility of him.
To want to speak to speak after the sexual act.
The excessive modesty or to think that only prostitutas can do what they want or they wish, but they do not cheer up to say it.
Not to be shaved. They do not demand the excess, but diffuseness and hygiene are important.
To remove makeup before making the love.
To excite them soon not to do anything.
Not to use erotic lingerie.Saving the distances between sexes, the fact that both are understood in the emotional plane and sexual it is the perfect conjunction of the ideal pair. And he is not so different than they of a man in the bed wait for: spontaneity, tenderness, surprise, to fulfill fantasies and mainly, to obtain that both enjoy because what more they value is a woman who is not intimidated and who she recognizes that it likes so much sex as to them.
“The woman has tendency to hide her sexual interest. If he is able to assume his necessity and taste as something natural will be something fabulous for the man because than complains more is of the lack of initiative and of the modesties at the time of the sex”, it explains the Argentine sexóloga Sandra Andrade.
The certain thing is that the women do not have modesties so that yes. There are reasons that can explain certain forms to be. “All the women we have physical complexes, but these are in the head and not in the body. The man must collaborate so that its pair feels safe in the bed.
The very great or very small obesity, cellulitis, chests, a very ample or fallen buttock, all these sensations, that can be false in fact limit much the self-esteem and what a woman wants to do at the time of sex. Many confess that they would like more to be dared and to try to realise the fantasies that their companions propose, but at the time of the truth he costs much to materialize them.
It is a work of two and the man has much to do so that the woman solves one of the problems that more bother them to him, the one of the lack of initiative or the modesty who take to the sexual routine”, comments the specialist.
The exhibited reclamations not only include the women. The men are involved in these defects and the unique way to correct them is, without doubts, of both.
Author Sandra Andrade - Psychologist
Some Questions with respect to the sexuality1 How many days after a sexual relation a woman can know if it were pregnant? The blood tests that become in the laboratories are effective between 12 and 14 days after the sexual relation. The urine tests that sell in the drug stores are 97% of effectiveness 15 after the relation.
2 It is possible that a woman is pregnant woman during a sexual relation without penetration? A low risk exists, because if a man eyacula in the entrance of the vagina is possible that some spermatozoa arrive until the ovum.
3 To interrupt the sex before the ejaculation serves to avoid a pregnancy? That technical fault in three of each ten pairs use that it. This must to that the lubrication liquid that produces the penis before eyacular can contain spermatozoa.
4 To take hot milk, to wash the vagina, to tinkle or to jump in a single foot they are good techniques to avoid a pregnancy? All these myths are absolutely false.
5. Which is him better contraceptive method? That depends on each woman. For that reason, the best thing is to use the one than the gynecologist recommends after a valuation.
6 From what age it is possible to be begun to use contraceptive methods? In theory they are possible to be used from the first menstruation. Nevertheless, it is important that they are used under medical supervision.
7 From whichever contraceptive tablets that to a woman forget to him to take, is lost the effect? After two tablets that are stopped taking it loses the contraceptive effect.
8 To take the “tablet from the day later” is to abort? No. To this method contraceptive of emergencia is called to him and what does is to prevent the encounter between the ovum and the spermatozoon, then it is not reached to produce the fertilization.
9 Which is the best form to take these contraceptives? These tablets are effective if they are used during the 72 hours following to the sexual relation. In order to take them always it is necessary the supervision and the prescription of a medical gynecologist.
10 What indirect effect have the contraceptives of emergencia? Seizures frequently can alter the periods of ovulation, which can diminish its effectiveness. In no case they produce infertility.
11 Besides condón exists some other contraceptive method for men? Only the vasectomy. Neither tablets nor injections exist that have contraceptive effects for the men.
12 Condón diminishes sensitivity? No. In order to verify it you can ponerte condón in the hand and feel several textures.
13 To use two you reduce to the time offers to major protection? Quite the opposite, can be risky because thus it is easier that they slide and they leave the penis.
14 They exist you reduce for women? Yes, but in Colombia not yet they obtain because they are very expensive.
15 The stamps clear the virginity? The virginity is a psychological concept. Nevertheless, from the anatomical point of view, they do not affect for anything the virginity.
16 If a woman does not have hymen it is test that he is not virgin? No. To a woman him the hymen by many causes like blows or falls can be broken. And also there are women who still conserve their hymen after to have had sexual relations.
17 There is way to notice at first if a woman is virgin? Myths because after having sexual relations to a woman the hips are high and mighty to him, change the form to him to walk or lose the brightness of their eyes, are totally false. Not even a gynecologist is able to know at first if a woman already has had sexual relations.
18 HIV can be infected to practice oral sex? It is a low risk, but it increases if the people have wounds abiertas in the mouth.
19 They can infect to me of HIV in a hairdressing salon when they cut the hair to me or they do manicure to me? The risk is low, are very few possibilities. Anyway always it is important to demand that in these establishments the instruments become disinfected that go away to use.
20 Which are the more common diseases of sexual transmission? Most frequent in this order they are: trichomoniasis (parasitic in the vagina), human papilloma, gonorrhea, syphilis and AIDS.
21 Why it serves a cytology? Its main objective is to detect previous injuries to the appearance of the cancer of uterine neck.
22 To what age they stop to him growing the sines to a woman? The sines begin to be developed one or two years before the first menstruation arrives and both maintain their growth during or three years following.
23 Which is the so large average of a penis? Until now a forceful investigation does not exist sufficiently to give this number. A survey realised through Internet enters more than 3,000 men threw that the average is between the 12 and 15 centimeters, in exitación state.
24 Only the men masturban themselves? No. In the women also it is a totally natural practice.
In the beginning of a relation the dialogue is very important of this follow indicators will guide that us on the best way to please to our pair. It is very important to be kind before nonverbal signals that they will give a greater clarity us on his preferences.
We must have present that the best form to know if it feels comfortable with something new is to ask it directly. The pairs that communicate abiertamente have better relations in sex.
Nevertheless to all it is not so easy to speak to us of sex with our pair, reason why it is important to know how to interpret the nonverbal signals that the women offer before our attempts of innovation. There am a list with some indications here:
The domination is a material fantasy for both sexes, although, sometimes, the concretion of this fantasy can be less pleasant of the imagined thing.
For that reason, it will be important to know if it feels comfortable in the submission. In this sense, you will be able darte counts if it is arranged to do something analyzing its general sexual attitude although this one is not the unique indicator and exceptions to the rule always can appear.
If she is a creative and interested lover, possibly she wants to try it. That one will be our first thought.
In any case, it is possible that it is evasive before the domination, so tries maintaining its arms below its head while him beams pretty things with your mouth.
If she tries to get away or seems uncomfortable, then she holds. Mírala, observes its face, and pays attention to its reaction. You must be ready to release it if she requests it to you.
Activities annals
Possibly you know from the beginning of your sexual relation if it is prepared or not to the anal activity. The women who have anal sex frequently do, it they love because it, so that without doubts they will request it to you when they are in I milk.
On the other hand, those that have not had good experiences annals, much more will be shut up, so you will have to be kind to its signals.He would be little reasonable to hope that they want to have anal sex in the first stages of a relation, when still both are led to construct the confidence and to create a sexual understanding with the other person; so déjalo for more ahead.
On the other hand, you will have to possibly speak on this subject more in one go, since it will be your obligation to provide the necessary security to him. It only remembers that if good it beams, she will insist to you so that she returns to happen.
How to know if she is prone to the anal activity? There is a very safe form to know what so prone to anal sex is, and is more or less thus: pon your hand near the zone as if you went to attack with a finger.
It will remove your hand with speed or she will let to you follow ahead. If it rejects, you will have to speak to you on the subject or to do a work extremely good to convince it in nonverbal form.This always works better when it is recostada mouth underneath way that you have complete access behind.
Finally, whenever it takes to you towards the zone, you will be able to assume that it is arranged to have anal sex, so comes consequently.
Fetiches
If you have fetiche, to present/display it to your new pair can be something traumatic. You do not know how it will react and, obvious, you do not want to run the risk of being rejected in which it is great part of your sexuality.
In any case, it will be good for waiting for a time until you can hacerte an idea than she could think. , Of course in question your fetiche is something also very important.
If your sexual obsessions concentrate in the feet and it does not have problems in being adored, all good. But, on the other hand, if you have a sexual connection with the citric fruits, you could find some difficulties at the time of explaining it.
The dialogue will be fundamental in these cases. The form in which she speaks about fetiches will show its level of understanding on the matter, reason why if she makes fun of of the people with strange adorations, possibly it does not react well to yours.
Under these circumstances, the best thing is to wait for until you have one more a more solid relation to speak these subjects.
On the other hand, it could calmly pass that it has the open mind and makes you feel from the beginning comfortable, permitiéndote expresarte. In any case, she approaches the subject with respect and, possibly, she does also it.
Oral sex
Although this seems a little old fashioned, are some women who are not familiarized with one of the favorite activities of many men: “the diving by the depths”.
This can occur by a variety of reasons, although, generally, usually they feel uncomfortable or intimidated before the fact that the man can smell them and savor them in a so intimate form.
If it resists to your reduction closing her legs, you will have to reconsider. In one of those, it is right very good not to want that you are disagreeable scents and flavors there and could well be doing it by you.
Nevertheless, she could happen that she is not familiarized with the sensual delights of oral sex, reason why you would have to make a long and warm introduction before zambullirte.
Normally, if one feels uncomfortable, it will put itself tense and she will enroscará themselves, and happen to the following phase of the sexual relation hoping that you do not return to try it.
If you feel its inconvenience, this aspect of your sexual life will require of some talks in stages more outposts of the relation, preferably when they are not in a privacy situation.
On the other hand, if you descend to its low zones and she allows it to you, you have green light.
Sex during the period
When just you initiate a relation with a woman, she could not know how how to handle the subject of the period. In this situation, the great question is: “you have sex during the period”
She does not know comfortable how you will be with the menstruation and the subjects that this one entails, so siéntete frees to speak with your even one on the subject.Comfortable Sentirte with its period will give some points you to favor, so it tries to talk with her and informarte; it formulates questions, it listens and it learns. You could discover some unknown important things about this subject.
Some subjects do not feel happiness when soiling itself, whereas some women are not either to pleasure. Nevertheless, the majority will not have majors problems while you do not have them.
Before nothing, pregúntale, and if she says that no, you do not do it. Ten in account that this does not mean “never”, but “not so far” at least, of course, that it is in charge to leave it in clearly well.
Consequently, siéntete frees to ask to him in another occasion again. Here a useful advice for these delicate situations goes: frequently, during their periods, the women usually are excited than customary more, since the high to estrogen levels make them extra-sensitive.
Therefore, if you are able to warm up it the sufficient thing, it is little possible that she can resist. Having said this, we must also know that the reasons are many for which they would not want to have sex during the period, such as scents, possible disasters with sheets, dirt, pains, and others.
Elije accurately the moment for trying it and the red light could become green for example, immediately after a bath.
If to her it does not matter to him either and, then they do it, although always using in common sense. In any case, sex during the period is not recommendable during the dawn of a relation, since it requires of a high degree of confidence and comfort between the parts of the pair.
It is worth the pain to tryThe best form to establish when it is the moment adapted for certain sexual act is comunicándote with your pair.
This not always means to speak on the matter yes, sometimes can be very embarrassing to speak of certain things, but they can signal and other track use to occur to understand.
And, mainly, they ten in account that she is not going to you to hurl because you think that he would be huge to tie it and to do the love to him in wild form. On the contrary, she yes could botarte if you are too boring, so nonsubjects to try new things… if she agrees, clearly.
Being conscious that she is a seductive person provides a electrizante sensation to him to be alive and in the heat of contact with the world that surrounds to him. To be atractivo/a she does not concern so much the aspect, but the way in which /a behaves and feels with itself. If sets out it, she can become irresistible!
It is not necessary to be a gallant of Hollywood or one “top model” to be an attractive person. The seduction implies infinity of small details, from the form to watch, to touch or to speak, to the creation of a incitante atmosphere by means of the colors, sounds and aromas.
Although it is not simply tried to dominate a technique: in order to attract the other not only it must put head, but also, and mainly! , much heart. It remembers that to be seductor/a it is in having sense of affectionate and warm humor and to be, instead of to resort systematically to the manipulation.
It thinks that there is lost his erotic spark or is not very segur@ on his capacity to seduce? The expert in psychology and healthful styles of life Eva Gizowska, author of the book “Seduction: 100 advice to attract”, explain how to bring to light “sex appeal” hidden and to untie the personal magnetism.
These are some of their recommendations to obtain one of the basic requirements of the eroticism: “a seductive mind”:
• The power of the piropos. The power does not undervalue the piropos and “it bombs” to his pair with admiration. The sensation to receive fulfilled is very pleasant and stimulating.
• A newspaper writes. When it knows that “special person”, it writes about that stimulating experience, beginning with the first moment in which they were seen. Actualícelo whenever it has time at least once a month, if every week is possible, and. Everything writes what they make together and what feels. Also it writes down the important moments, as the first kiss, his first together vacations and, even, the first fight. It will be a sweet reminder of the happy moments that it shares. This him will make more conscious of its love towards the other person.
• A meditation on the love. It finds a place calm where it can sit down with comfort, it closes the eyes and it breathes slow and deeply. It imagines a ray of pure and white light on his head and directs that luminous energy towards his heart. It thinks about his pair and it sends a total and unconditional love to him. This meditation will fortify its loving relations of unsuspected form.
• “Sigilosa” seduction. The affirmation of which “sex is in the brain” is certain than it assumes. With the practice, it can use the power of the imagination and the visualization to pass on erotic passion without moving of the site. If it finds somebody very attractive, tranquilícese. Then, in silence and with intensity, it visualícese touching, caressing and kissing that person, until it feels an intense desire. Their eyes and energy “will speak by you”. Desire is contagious, and if “both are in the same wave” its message will be understood completely. Compruébelo.
The word orgasmo was almost stranger by many women until not many years ago. The women arrived at the marriage without no knowledge on the sexuality and due to the Victorian education and the own inhibitions of that time the sexual act meant little for many of them less than a sacrifice.
Few could enjoy sex their husbands who either did not have idea of the difference between the feminine sexuality and the masculine one.
It was common in that time that the men had family lovers mainly extra because to his they rejected them spouses in the bed.
Nevertheless, nowadays, in spite of the sexual freedom that exists, the difficulties of the women to have a satisfactory normal sexual relation are common.
So that besides the repression, other factors must exist that produce this habitual misalignment.
A satisfactory normal sexual relation is considered when the man as much as the woman at the same time arrives at orgasmo or climax by means of the penetration from the penis within the vagina.Orgasmo is the sensation of pleasing genital and general that accompanies the culmination by the sexual act, that constitutes a sum of involuntary reflections that are originated at the time of more high excitation.
One of the factors that can influence in the lack of orgasmo in the woman is due to the habit to obtain sexual satisfaction by means of the stimulation of clítoris.
This way of satisfaction belongs to a previous stage of the psicosexual development, since the sexual maturity implies to obtain the satisfaction by the stimulation with the penis of the erógena zone that is at heart of the vagina.
The passage of an immature erógena zone to the following one for the woman generally is not easy and requires a time of adaptation; thus the stable sexual relations with a same pair can favor this process.
The man does not change of erógena zone that always continues being the penis and is the active agent by nature that it must seed spermatozoa for the continuity of the species; therefore its sexual conduct is more urgent and it orients itself to the search of the woman.
For the woman, this learning does not require of the implementation of techniques, rather it happens through the necessity that its pair provides the manifestations to him of affection that it waits for, because generally one woman cannot be dissociated and be thought only about the sex.
The woman by nature is receiving and is the passive agent, to favor the raising and the survival of prole.
The man must know like treating a woman; and in a pair he must exist total confidence and communication to be able to obtain it, because each person is unique and different. To return
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